Without a single doubt life can be easy, when we get rid of useless people taking too much space in our life, and without a doubt it takes us a lot of courage to do so. Sometimes we wrong our own self when we surround ourselves with mistakes, and by mistakes I mean bad choices, bad human beings.
We try to put too much effort for someone who don’t get us, we give care and love, meanwhile all we receive is negligence, this is the stage where we lose our dignity.
“In every mistake we fall into, there is a lesson we try to get to”
Well! Said by me.
It’s true! For every bad choice we pass through, there is an experience that teaches us how to deal with upcoming difficult situations, with integrity and patience.
Our reliance and dependency on people who doesn’t give a damn about us, was never a choice either. When our attention falls on those type of human beings, we tend to be fully blind for those who give us the ultimate care and attention we really in need for.
Once James Keller said: “ A candle loses nothing by lightening another candle”
Don’t get too excited. Care is important, probably the most needed action in our risky world. We lose nothing when we ask about others, help them, and support them in their needy time. Its a sign of our humanity. However, when I give you my light so you can shine in the darkness, and then I dim will you be there in my darkest moments, to make my world shine as so I did to yours? Or will you leave me in the cold, muddy road helpless and all alone?
A numerous number of people has passed through my life, Some of them I still do remember for their nice attitude, since they stood by me in good and hard to handle moments. While others I can’t even remember their initials, since their existence was like their absence, never meant anything, for what I did was leaving a space!
P.s.: It has been a long time since I’ve posted! I hope you enjoy reading this new piece. And don’t forget to comment down below.
Have you ever had a similar situation where you had to seriously give a space? When did that happen? With whom? And Why?
I would be so excited to read your stories!